And when it comes to dating and finding your perfect partner, I have all the knowledge you need.
And I’m ready to share it with you!
You may wonder what’s driving me to be this generous, to share the wisdom I’ve collected in over a dozen years working with couples and families.
Your coach, mentor and, if you’ll have me, guide through the treacherous seas of the dating world
Throughout my career I’ve seen love in all it’s stages, and I’ve also had a front row seat to the effects love has on people, either through personal experiences or through my work.
I’ve seen women lose themselves in a relationship ,
I’ve seen women change for their partner and claim it’s what they truly want, only to do a full 180 once the relationship ended,
I’ve seen couples separate then find their way back to each other with a renewed love,
I’ve seen the healing effects of true love and the destructive effect it can have when it’s not shared or used maliciously.
I’ve helped thousands of people, but somehow it never seemed like it was enough, I’ve always felt like I could do more, help more people, make a bigger impact in people’s lives.
I knew what I wanted to do ever since I was in High School and experienced my first heartbreak. Yeah, it was painful, but the feeling that stuck with me wasn’t the pain I felt, but the frustration of knowing there was nothing I could’ve done to prevent it. I remember wishing there was a manual, like the ones we had for English Class, teaching me how to deal with the feelings I had at that young age, but I soon learned that when it comes to love, there’s no other way to learn than from experience.
At this point you’re probably thinking I’m winging this…but I’m not.
Because when I give you a piece of advice, you can be sure it’s backed up by:
Over twenty one years of experience working in the field of psychology.
Seventeen years managing and maintaining a private practice as a Masters level Psychotherapist.
My experience as a Licensed Professional Counselor in the state of Colorado for thirteen years.
Over ten years of classroom instruction, training and presentations.
And key accomplishments such as hundreds of successes with client counseling, effective interventions, crisis stabilization, conflict resolution, and dynamic, creative and effective teaching and training.
Because as a coach I can provide a solution focused modality to getting people the tools that they need.
Through courses and group coaching I can provide you with the tools that you need to get moving in a better direction.
Though it is true it is difficult to find a compatible partner, I have found that the first step to finding love is to be in love with yourself, to become the love of your own life.
Many people feel like they have reached this point of true love, though they are still struggling to make connections with others. The reason is that there are blind spots that people struggle to see through that may be holding them back.
Through my sessions I have found that letting go of the “Single Mentality” and embracing the “Couple Mentality” is the first step into finding the love you seek as it will give you a unique perspective about what it will be like to find the love and relationship you seek.
I’m not gonna bore you with all the fancy names and schools, except to tell you that I graduated the University of Colorado at Denver with a Master’s Degree in Counseling Psychology and Counselor Education: Couples and Family Track in 2007.
And some of the trainings that I’ve attended include:
Releasing the Body from the Bonds of Trauma: A Somatic Approach to Healing Abandonment Issues and Attachment Wounds: Peter Levine, Ph.D., 2022
Certificate Course in Emotionally Focused Therapy with Sue Johnson: Attachment Based Interventions for
Couples in Crisis, 2022
Soothing the Threatened Brain: Using Attachment Science to Create Bonding, Satisfying Relationships
with Sue Johnson, Ed.D., 2018
Treating Pain and Anxiety with Hypnosis and Guided Imagery, Goodtherapy.org, 2017
And the list goes on…
That you too can have the love you want, with the man you want, when you want it.
But under one condition.
That you stick to it!
Because all the tools I’m going to give you and all the tips you’re going to learn won’t mean anything if you’re not consistently using them and you’re not consistent in doing the inner work, visualizing, shifting your mindset, and healing from past trauma.
I’m not going to lie to you and tell you it’s easy because it’s not…
And it will hurt sometimes…
But I’ll be right there with you, ready to support you as you go through it.
And just like that…it will be easier every day, until it turns into a routine, then it turn into a part of who you are.
And befoer you know it, you’re living the life you’ve been visualizing all along.
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